Even though we go through a lot of changes in life, we experience a lot and meet a lot of people. There isn’t that necessity to make a statement to anyone.
If you feel comfortable wearing something, doing something or going somewhere. You do not need to get the confirmation of others to do so.
You do things at your own pace, through your own way, and via your own mechanism.
We make individual paradigmatic choices to create a syntigm of our characteristics as well as persona. As soon as you need to get assertion from others – it defeats the purpose of being you.
Ultimately, how you are perceived should come from within, how you provoke yourself should be via your own belief.
No one has the right to say what you are doing is right or wrong – as by the end what is right and what is wrong?